When do we start falling in love? Puberty? Even just puppy love?
According to Professor Michael Tan, we start getting attraction at a very young age. For example, in the case of the Taiwanese boy band F4, they say that there is a particular member who appealed to 7 and 8 years olds. Hmmm...I wonder who? :)

When these kids grew older, they shift to another member.
What makes love happen? Is it because of the person's face, physique, or sense of humor? But what if you just met the person? Why is the attraction there?
E.O. Wilson, a noted socio biologist said that there are traits that appealed universally.
He said attractive women possess the ideal waist-to-hip-ratio; and an oval and symmetric face. That is why the 36-24-36 figure is considered sexy. [But how come there are girls who diet to death in pursuit of the anorexic physique?]
Men, on the other hand, are judged based on their height; square jaws; and also the ideal waist-to-hip ratio plus a symmetric face.
However, I would like to ask the women, which look do you prefer? The Arnold Schwarzenegger look--

Or the Leonardo di Caprio look--

The Arnold look has what Professor Tan joked as the "I want you to be the father of my children." look.
While di Crapio has the fatherly appeal, "I want you to nurture my children." look.
For men, some may prefer the Western eyes as opposed to women with Oriental eyes. The issue of skin color is also considered.
Or attraction may be cultural, not necessarily a universal trait, as to my previous
post.
Sometimes these rules of attraction are not necessarily followed. Some girls have an inkling towards men with beer bellies, the same with men who prefer plump, bosomy women.
For example in India, women on the heavy side are considered very, very attractive.
Why? Because this is a sign of wealth and prosperity. The men or women grew up in a family who was able to provide for them generously.
Or in the Philippines, probably this is just one of the 3 M's--
mayaman (rich)
, matanda (old)
, madaling mamatay (will die easily). :P
Professor Tan asked the class this question, forget attractiveness, "Do we look for love, because we are expected to?" Like when Valentines' Day comes, do we suddenly feel the need to be in love?
He left us with possible implications to ponder on.
What if the anorexic look dominates? What if the desire for fair skin leads girls into using toxic skin whiteners? And does culture reshape the gene pool with arranged marriages?
Lots of things to think about. What about you, what do you consider attractive?